This week's portion tells the story of Isaac and Rebecca -- with. focus on the rivalry between their twin sons, Jacob and Esau. Esau, the first-born, famously sells Jacob his birthright for a mess of porridge, a transaction Jacob seals by tricking Isaac into giving him the blessing of abundance meant for Esau.
I heard a rabbi recently say that this portion features poor child-raising practices, in that the parents each have a favorite child. Rebecca intervenes to help Jacob; Isaac favors Esau because of the game meat he brings him to eat.
But I disagree. If one child really is disruptive to the other -- as Esau may have been to Jacob -- then a responsible parent has to protect the vulnerable one. You have to treat children equally for equal behavior; however, you should not treat different behavior the same. And the Torah makes clear that while Esau's behavior had its real merits, Jacob practiced the more virtuous lifestyle.
This week’s portion launches the great story of Abraham, who is told to leave everything of his life behind — except his immediate family — and to leave for “the Land that I shall show you.”
There’s something interesting in the fact that Abraham is told to leave his father’s house, as if breaking away from his father’s life — but his father, in fact, began the journey, moving from Ur to Haran (in last week’s portion). His father set a positive example — why should Abraham leave him?
Some obvious answers suggest themselves — adulthood, needing to make one’s own choices, his father not going far enough, etc.
But I think there is another answer. Abraham (known for the moment as Abram) needs to establish his own household. This is not just about making one’s own choice, but really about choosing one’s own starting point. It’s starting over.
Sometimes we start over in fundamental ways even if much that surrounds us remains the same. Sometimes the journey we have to ...
The story of Noah is familiar; the details, less so.
Noah is often seen as an ambivalent figure. He was righteous -- but only for his generation. What was his deficiency?
One answer suggests itself: knowing that the world was about to be flooded, he built an Ark for the animals and for his own family -- but did not try to save anyone else or to convince them to repent and change their ways (the prophet Jonah, later, would share that reluctance).
Abraham, later, would set himself apart by arguing with God -- with the Lord Himself! -- against the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah, saying that they should be saved if there were enough righteous people to be found (there were not).
Still, Noah was good enough -- and sometimes, that really is sufficient to save the world. We don't need heroes every time -- just ordinary decency.
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