It’s the Fourth of July. I’m glad to be back in the U.S.A., though my last real conscious activity outside of the cabin of an airplane was driving a minibus around the wintry, smoky, coarse-asphalted streets of Jo’burg.
As I write this — crossing the Canadian border at high altitude — It’s 7:23 p.m. in the time zone I had just gotten used to. I already miss waking up at the Vineyard Hotel, even without power, before the dawn.
There’s something special about these family trips. You spend more time with your kids than you would in any other circumstance. And you can’t do them too often; it’s really expensive to travel in a large group.
It’s always fun to come home to L.A. I can’t say that about too many other places. Coming home to Chicago from abroad always felt like returning to something cold and plain; coming home to South Africa felt lonely.
Still, when my son told me he didn’t really want to go home yet, I understood what he meant. We had an incredible trip together. We made a plan and we executed it, and it mostly worked out the way we hoped.
Positive things: we gave Rhoda Kadalie the memorial she wanted and deserved. We introduced my son to his grandfather, and my kids to other relatives. We gave them a sense of where they came from. It’s theirs.
At the Gardens synagogue, we showed my children the full beauty of their tradition, both architecturally and musically. At Boulders Beach and Aquila Game Reserve, we showed them a glimpse of the beauty of nature.
I met with the publisher of my forthcoming biography of Rhoda, and I visited many of the places I love. I didn’t see all of my friends and relatives, but I saw many of them — including some I hadn’t seen before.
Negative things: we saw South Africa at its worst, in “load shedding,” unable to keep the lights on. There is hope for political change in 2024, if the Democratic Alliance can beat the ANC and lead a new coalition.
But the likeliest coalition is the ANC and the radical EFF, which would doom the country. South Africa is one miracle away from turning things around, and feels like it’s one or two more crises away from total collapse.
My daughter caught a cold; I stepped on a seashell and the wound became infected; my wife and I have spent a fortune on the whole affair. We’re going to be exhausted — and we’ll struggle to get to fireworks.
But regardless, this was a really special trip. I’m amazed, in a way, that I was able to replicate, on a family scale, much of my trip from earlier this year. There’s been a mission each time, and we’ve fulfilled it.
Let me turn my thoughts to the U.S.A. A trip to South Africa invariably makes one grateful for America — and you wonder what people are thinking about in Johannesburg or Cape Town as they see you go back again.
I’m grateful that we will have electricity when we land — or we should, anyway. That’s not a given in South Africa these days. I’ll also be grateful to arrive in midsummer, with warm air and long days and even fireflies.
What makes South Africa and the U.S.A. different? We both have free market economies; we both have bad governments; we both have all kinds of challenges that we don’t exactly know how we are going to face.
South Africa has the gilded cages in which people live — the homes surrounded by electrified fencing, the fear of being robbed, raped, and murdered. But it also has the sense of being part of something important.
What makes the U.S. different: a large middle class, and a conservative media, and an entrepreneurial spirit, and a celebration of the individual; and an inherent reluctance to be forced in any particular ideological path.
I guess that’s what I’ll celebrate tonight, with the fireworks at the local high school, and the hoodlums who shoot firecrackers at my house, and the warmth of the whole place. We’ll rest, and be grateful, for it all.
This week's portion elucidates some of the first laws and principles of the Torah that follow the Ten Commandments, including -- a message particularly relevant to freed slaves -- the Jewish restrictions on indentured servitude.
God also provides the basic civil laws of Jewish society, governing almost every area of life -- in this one portion! -- as well as several basic principles of faith and religious observance. Moses then ascends Sinai for 40 days.
One of the laws God gives is the law against taunting a foreigner. This is different from allowing people to enter your land illegally; it is about showing respect, however, for people from other lands and other groups.
I am reminded of the importance of this principle because of the rhetoric lately attacking Elon Musk, a fellow South African-turned-American, for his foreign roots -- often by people who favor illegal immigration, ironically.
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Since the Palisades Fire on January 7, my posts have been fairly sparse. I have just been so busy -- fighting the fire, covering the fire, helping neighbors, and launching a new podcast, "Three Homeless Guys," with two local friends.
Things are up and down. My family is still displaced, and we haven't resolved our living situation. We are awaiting answers from the insurance company (State Farm) on what they will cover, including alternative living expenses.
There are some incredible opportunities opening up -- more on that later -- and our kids are generally doing well, though this has been hard for them as well (especially the two middle kids, who miss their friends and their house).
The emotion of it all hit me yesterday. Today I feel wrung out. But I also feel that, in a way, going through the fire has been a process of refinement, of re-casting in a new mould, to face new challenges. And to win each new day.
So much to talk about, once again, as the Trump administration continues at breakneck pace. From DOGE chewing through the federal bureaucracy, to Marco Rubio heading out on his first missions for Trump, there's so much...
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Assemblyman Carl DeMaio -- on the L.A. fires and reforming CA insurance
Matt Boyle -- Breitbart News political editor, on DOGE and confirmations
Jamie Paige -- founder of the Westside Current, on L.A. politics and the fires
Frances Martel -- Breitbart News foreign editor, on Rubio and Russia/Ukraine
Rob Hersov -- South African commentator, on SA's fight with the White House
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